A Good Night's Rave
"I guess we've all had nights where we've gone to a dance event with high
expectations, all psyched up and 'up for it' only to be disappointed by the
experience. Anyone any suggestions or tips for increasing the odds in favour
of a A Good Night's Rave?"
Here are a few to begin with...
- You own mindset is one of the biggest contributors to a good or bad
night. Make sure your thoughts are positive. Feel good about yourself.
Be active rather than passive - don't expect the event to deliver
enjoyment to you on a plate - you have to contribute maybe 80 per cent
yourself.
- Don't go out expecting everything to be 'just perfect', and while
you're there try not to compare the event with your own benchmark
ideal rave. Be happy that each party will be unpredictably different.
- Rather than being too interested in your own experience/enjoyment of
the event, put some effort into making other people feel good - smile
a lot, shake hands, give hugs etc. I've noticed that when complete
strangers connect with me like this, my enjoyment of the night is
enhanced hugely.
- This might sound obvious, but DANCE... Give yourself totally to the
music, let it become part of you.
Tony
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